REAL SH*T IN LEARNED IN MY TWENTIES

The secret to thriving in your thirties and beyond

This is a love letter to your journey, a tough love letter! As we navigate this beautiful chaos called life, I have learned (and still learning) wisdom that transformed my twenties beyond inspirational quotes to scroll past. These 20 lessons are the raw, unfiltered truths that changed everything for me and might just do the same for you.

EMBRACE THE JOURNEY
Trust me when I say everything truly does work out in the end. Whatever storm you're weathering right now? Ride it out with grace. God and the universe have your back, even when it doesn't feel like it.

CELEBRATE YOUR BODY, NOW
Your gorgeous body will transform throughout your life, so wear those crop tops! Your future self will thank you for embracing your beauty at every stage.

INVEST WISELY
Pour your resources—money, time, energy—into what lasts. From that investment piece in your wardrobe to relationships that nourish your soul to quality tools that won't fail you. Quality over everything, always.

KNOW YOUR WORTH
Ask for that raise with your head held high. Your skills/gifts deserve to be rewarded, and even if they say no (their loss!), you've honored yourself by recognizing your value.

SPEAK YOUR TRUTH
If marriage is your desire, be transparent with your partner. Silence born from fear only leads to regret. Starting over is infinitely better than settling in your most intimate relationship.

TREASURE YOUR PEOPLE
Life moves quickly—make those memories with family and friends. These moments become the treasure chest you'll return to again and again.

EXPLORE THE WORLD
Travel shifts your perspective like nothing else. Whether it's a weekend getaway or an international adventure, experiencing new cultures and landscapes expands your world.

YOUR TIMELINE, YOUR CHOICE
Being selective about when (or if) to welcome children into your life isn't selfish—it's smart. Honor your intuition about what's right for you.

FINANCIAL FREEDOM IS POWER
Distinguish between wants and needs. Your future self will thank you for every dollar saved and smart financial choice made today.

FIND YOUR SIGNATURE SCENT
The right fragrance becomes part of your identity—a conversation starter and the most divine compliment from strangers. Choose something that makes you feel like the best version of yourself.

AUTHENTICITY ATTRACTS AUTHENTICITY
The most magnetic version of you is the most genuine one. Refuse to conform to others' expectations, and watch how the right people are naturally drawn your way.

KEEP SOME MYSTERIES
Not every thought, memory, or dream needs to be shared—even with those closest to you. There's power in having sacred spaces that belong only to you.

NURTURE YOUR TEMPLE
Your body deserves exceptional care—regular check-ups, hydration, nourishment. Neglect it, and it will rebel spectacularly when you least expect it.

MASTER YOUR SKILL
Discover what lights your soul on fire and become brilliant at it. Specialization brings fulfillment that scattered efforts never can.

PERFECT NATURAL BEAUTY
A flawless no-makeup makeup look is timeless and powerful. Master this art, and you'll never be at the mercy of fleeting beauty trends.

LUXURIATE IN SELF-CARE
Your body routine deserves the same attention as your facial skincare. Treat yourself like the goddess you are, from head to toe.

FEED YOUR SOUL
Honor whatever nourishes your soul, regardless of society's opinions. If Sunday service fills your cup, attend with joy—brunch and mimosas can wait.

SAVOR SOLITUDE
Quality time alone is a luxury to be cherished. These moments of self-connection become the foundation of your strength.

RESIST COMPARISON
Remember that behind every perfect Instagram grid and aesthetic TikToks is someone else figuring out life just like you. Their aesthetic perfection doesn't make their journey any more successful than yours.

EMBRACE IMPERFECTION
Your twenties are for making mistakes—beautiful, necessary ones that shape who you'll become. The secret to thriving in your thirties? Learning those lessons deeply so you don't repeat them.

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